🛑 Why Travel Felt Impossible, And How I Changed That
For a long time, I told myself the same story: travel wasn’t for people like me. I had a full-time job, kids, bills, and barely enough energy to get through the week… let alone plan a vacation. It felt like travel was reserved for people with lighter schedules or deeper pockets. But here’s what I learned: if you wait for life to slow down, you might be waiting forever.
💥 The Moment Everything Shifted
I hit a wall. Burnout wasn’t just knocking.. it moved in! I was tired of watching everyone else live freely while I stayed in grind mode. One day I asked myself: What am I waiting for? That question changed everything. I realized I didn’t need permission, perfect timing, or a sabbatical to take a break. I needed strategy, intention, and the belief that I deserved rest too.
📆 How I Make Travel Work with a 9–5
Let’s get practical. Here’s how I squeeze joy into a tight schedule:
- Holiday Piggybacking: Add a day or two to long weekends to stretch your PTO. I keep the U.S. Federal Holiday Calendar bookmarked so I can stack my PTO around long weekends without wasting extra days.
- Half-Day Hacks: Leave Thursday afternoon, come back Sunday night. Game-changer.
- Remote Work Days: If your job allows, take your laptop and extend the trip.
- School Calendar Syncing: If you’re a parent, align your breaks for smoother planning.
- Book Early, Save More: Planning 3–6 months ahead can unlock some serious savings. I love using Skyscanner’s Cheapest Month tool to track flight deals in advance—it’s been a game-changer.
Even a 48-hour getaway can reset your spirit if you plan it with purpose.
👩🏽👧 Mom Mode vs Me Mode
Yes, I love family vacations. But let’s be honest—those aren’t always restful. As moms, we’re still managing logistics, snacks, emotions. That’s why solo trips and girlfriend getaways matter. They’re not selfish—they’re soul care.
- Family trips: Memories with your people
- Solo trips: Reconnection with your SELF. That’s why solo trips and girlfriend getaways matter. If you need inspiration, Black Girls Travel Too curates some amazing travel experiences designed just for us.
You deserve both.
⏳ Reclaiming Time = Reclaiming Identity
Every time I board a plane or pack a weekend bag, I’m taking back a little piece of myself. Travel isn’t just about destinations—it’s about discovering new parts of YOU. You don’t need to go far or spend a lot. It’s the act of choosing yourself that changes everything.
💬 Let’s Make It Real
Drop a comment: If you had 3 days to yourself, where would you go? No limits, just vibes.
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